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The Power of Now is an excellent book, I agree. Conversations with God is another one, as well as many many more. It sounds like you were very blessed to have been taught right from the start, and I would agree with your comments. We are all exactly were we are meant to be for our own evolution, and our own learning experiences. It also means for anyone reading these posts to realize that we are all perfect and to remember it is never too late to change no matter what type of upbringing we've all had. All of our upbringings are stories, and we do come into our present situations with our own baggage and our own stories. Byron Katie's book Loving what is is another excellent book to read. The power to change is within all of us all of the time. Accepting ourselves, and accepting others exactly the way they are is what I had meant when it comes to our ego. Unconditional love is ultimately loving ourselves unconditionally and loving others unconditionally too. Warmest Wishes, I do look forward to discussing more with you in the future. Rita

Thank you for the nice comments. I am very much aware I am where I am suppose to be at any given moment. I had a great mom that raised my sisters and me very spiritually. I don't know any other way to be and I have done the same with my daughter. I have always known I am where I am at because of my own actions and decissions. When I say live without ego, it is to make my decissions not based on how they effect me on an ego or superficial level, but how they effect me on a spiritual level. How do they effect my sense of true self, not just the outward appearance and if it is for my higher good or not. I have found The Power of Now is a great book for that. Have agreat day!

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Great progess, day 31. I can't wait to get there myself!

Keep up the good work! I like the part on your profile that your "fantasy" dinner party includes your family. I'm with you there!

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My story can be found on my main website.

fear-stands-in-my-way.com 

 

I began writing on this website last November, and the name of my website came to me last May. I t was not what I had imagined by website to be about when I first purchased the program last April.

 

Today, however I see that every step of my life has led me to here, and everything is exactly the way it's meant to be, at every moment in time.

 

 

F.E.A.R.  Feeling Emotions Accepting Responsibility.

 

Feeling Emotions And Remembering  

I joined TOOLS because:
 It looked different than the other sites, and I liked the concept and uniqueness of it.
My favorite domestic animal is (if you choose dog be specific with breed etc):
 Horses
Why:
 Free spirited, and beautiful
A famous Chef will prepare anything you want. What do you order:
 Shell fish, Shell Fish, Shell Fish, All kinds
Why:
 Favourite food, I can never get enough of
Five people either dead or alive you would have at your fantasy dinner party::
 My parents, my kids
Why:
 My parents, because I would like to thank them for doing their best. My children because I want to let them know how much they mean to me.
My perfect slice of pizza is:
 Pizza with potatoes. Very Very good, unless you make it homemade the only other place you'll find it is in Rome.
You are at a coffee shop. What coffee or tea do you order:
 Cappuccino
If a genie could grant you three wishes they would be (separate by commas):
 Happiness, love, surrounded by loving family
If I could do anything for my neighborhood today, it would be:
 Have a community drop in center where kids could come and go. Neighbors could drop by for coffee, and we would all look out for each other
A sunset I remember:
 My first date with my husband, it was on a boat cruise, and the sunset was breathtaking
Any character I could be from a movie, TV show or book would be:
 Reba
Why:
 She's Real