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Thu, Jul 03 10:44 AM

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I have had a chance to calm down. Thanks for the support ,it helped. My initial reaction was to want to run away.I thought it through and decided that was not the right thing to do.I will be going on vacation in a coupe of weeks. I will be staying in a cabin  in Minnesota for 5 days.I will be moving after I get back. I already have a place I can move to when I get back.Than I will take a break from my family.It may or may not be permanent .It depends on them. I will not let them continue to treat me the way they have been.I will no longer accept the unacceptable.

The choice will be theirs. They can either change or take a hike. 

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TimberAllen TimberAllen:

with you!

You're not aloneWe are with you!

shecan shecan:

Good for you

Sounds like you have a plan to move out now.  You're right you definitely do not have to accept  unacceptable treatment from anyone, especially your family.  Your brother and sister have no right to talk to you or treat you the way it sounds like they treat you (I read your earlier blog).  Better you have your own place where you can choose who you let into your space, no matter how much help your mom needs.  Let the rest of the family pitch in to help her.

Way to go! Way to go!